Sexo, pudor y lágrimas (Sex, Shame, and Tears) is a 1999 Mexican romantic comedy drama film written and directed by Antonio Serrano and starring Demián Bichir, Susana Zabaleta, Jorge Salinas, Cecilia Suárez, VÃÂctor Huggo Martin and Mónica Dionne. The film is based on Serrano's stage play Sexo, pudor y lágrimas, which ran for two years. The film broke box-office records in Mexico, grossing MX$118 million (roughly US$11 million). It played for six months, and was seen by more than eight million people in Mexico alone, and won five Ariel Awards.
Tomás returns to Mexico after a seven-year trip around the world, to visit his friends Carlos and Ana, a couple going through relationship problems. Ana is seduced by Tomás, who is also her ex-boyfriend, which causes Carlos to kick Tomás out of their home. Although instead of Tomás leaving, Ana leaves and moves across the street to the apartment of their friends Miguel and Andrea, another couple going through problems. The situation becomes a battle of the sexes when Miguel is kicked-out for cheating on Andrea and sent to live with the "guys" across the street and MarÃÂa, their friend, joins the "girls" in a boycott against all men. Tomas then has a fling with Andrea and gets caught in the act. After seeing the emptiness of his life, punctuated with him making a scene at a local nightclub, Tomas declares his love for Ana before apparently committing suicide by walking into an elevator shaft.
In the Region 4 DVD version, several alternate final scenes are explored, including Tomas surviving the fall and emerging in a full body cast.
The sequel, Sexo, pudor y lágrimas 2 was released on February 4, 2022, on HBO Max. All the cast from the first film reprise their roles except for Demián Bichir, who appears in photographs and flashbacks.