Nicholas Alexander (7 February 1980 â 13 November 2015) was a British man who was murdered in a terrorist attack at the Bataclan theatre in Paris while he was working as a merchandise manager for the American rock band Eagles of Death Metal. Alexander was 35 years old when he was shot by gunmen; he was the only British victim of the 2015 Paris Attacks.
Nicholas Alexander was born on 7 February 1980 to parents Barry and Sheelagh Alexander. According to Weeley Parish councillor Christine Hamilton, Alexander was christened and confirmed at Weeley church and belonged to 1st Weeley cub and scout groups. He had been an altar boy at St Andrew's Church. Alexander grew up in Clacton Road, Weeley, as well as Colchester, where he and his sister Zoe would read NME and obsess over Britpop bands. He attended Colchester's St James's Primary School and was a student at Colchester Royal Grammar School from 1991 to 1998. While Nick was still at school, Zoe started working for a merchandise company and got Nick a job selling programmes at V Festival. After finishing his A-levels, Alexander frequented Colchester Arts Centre where he was the creator, instigator, DJ and personality of the monthy Club Svelte night which he ran , according to the venue's director Anthony Roberts, and a number of other DJ nights before setting up the Milkshake club night at Route Nightclub. He also ran club nights in London. Alexander had lived in Weeley until he went to university. He studied English at the University of Liverpool in the late 1990s and early 2000s, and did a master's in science fiction.
His first stint on the road as a merch manager came with US singer-songwriter Jesse Malin, when Alexander was 23 years old. Over the course of his career as a merch manager, Nick toured with a wide range of acts that included Scissor Sisters, Damon Albarn, Alice in Chains, MGMT, Fall Out Boy and the Black Keys, Cat Stevens, and, on multiple occasions, Sum 41 and Panic! at the Disco. In 2012, Alexander sold merch for Africa Express, the project of Albarn and journalist and campaigner Ian Birrell.
Alexander met Helen Wilson, a citizen of the US, either in 2005 while Wilson working a music catering gig, or in 2006 in Liverpool, where they started a relationship which lasted either a year or two years. According to Rolling Stone, Wilson was in a troubled marriage at the time which was too much for Alexander. After their relationship ended, they remained close friends and continued to see each other occasionally as she ran a catering company based around the music business.
When Nick was off-duty, he would be his sister Zoe's "gig buddy", with one of Zoe's fondest memories of Nick being the last gig they attended together, the Libertines, in September 2014.
Alexander was one of 90 civilians killed during the shootings at Parisâ Le Bataclan music venue on 13 November 2015 when Islamic State fanatics opened fire, which occurred during a series of violent attacks in the French capital as part of a coordinated shooting and bombing spree. He was working for the American rock band Eagles of Death Metal, who were playing at the venue, as a merchandise manager on their European tour, The Bataclan concert hall was attacked by suicide attackers carrying automatic rifles and wearing explosive vests. According to The Foreign Office, Alexander was the only British national to die in the attacks, though a handful of injured Britons were hospitalised. Alexander was believed to have been shot two or three times, with his cause of death given as gunshot wounds to the abdomen and chest. An inquest into Alexander's death had Helen Wilson, his former partner who was living in France and survived the attack, describe his final moments in testimony. Wilson said that she had spent the night with Alexander in his hotel room the night before, and arrived at the Bataclan to meet him at his merchandising stall, spending 30 or 40 minutes together before the gunmen entered. She said that Alexander grabbed her and threw her off his elevated merch stand, and that they both played dead as gunmen tore into the crowd shortly after 10pm, with Wilson, wounded in both legs, attempting to give Alexander mouth-to-mouth resuscitation as he died in her arms. Alexander's friend David Grey, a merchandiser for Ed Sheeran, said it would have been difficult for Alexander to escape due to the vulnerable position and visibility of the merchandise stall. The three killers were later revealed as Omar Ismail Mostefai, Samy Amimour and Foued Mohamed-Aggad. Two died when they detonated suicide vests, and the third was shot and killed by police.
The Eagles of Death Metal band members learned that Alexander had been killed while waiting at the nearest police station. In New York, Alexander's girlfriend Polina Buckley revived her dormant Twitter account to find out what had happened to Alexander, discovering that he had been killed within a few hours of posting her message. Buckley posted a series of pictures of them together, writing "Sleep tight, my sweet prince. I will always love you, Nick Alexander." Alexander's family knew he was at the Bataclan, as his mother had spoken to him the night before, but they didn't learn he had passed away until 24 hours after the shooting spree.
After his death, Alexander was identified by his fingerprints, and post mortem examination was carried out on his body at Colchester General Hospital on 25 November 2015. Alexander's funeral service was conducted by Reverend David Newman and held on 21 December 2025 at St Andrew's Church in Weeley, which Alexander had attended since he was a child, was a member, and visited a few weeks before his death after having heard Newman was ill. The funeral was attended by more than 250 people. Alexander's parents led the mourners, along with his sister Zoe. The service included the song "Across the Universe" by the Beatles.
Music industry friends of Alexander around the world shared messages of grief. Musicians who paid tribute to Alexander include the Black Keys drummer Patrick Carney, Fall Out Boy guitarist Joe Trohman, Cat Stevens, Damon Albarn and Africa Express co-founder Ian Birrell, as well as the bands Alice in Chains and the Smashing Pumpkins. A fundraising page set up by a friend of Alexander in the US had raised more than ã30,000 by late on 15 November. Alexander was one of the many people whose pictures were posted on Twitter under the hashtag #rechercheparis after friends and families learned of the scale of the attacks. Despite Alexander's family having refused to let their grief be used as political ammunition, saying: "Nick was the epitome of tolerance" and "there was no bigotry in that boy", Britain First, who passed a policy to ban Islam in the UK, posted a picture of Alexander on their Facebook page which over six hundred people commented on before it became unavailable, most of which condemned Britain First and accused them of "exploiting the dead".
Three days after Alexander's death, his long-term friend Gemma Taylor spoke to BBC Breakfast about how he will be remembered, calling Alexander a "caring" person who was "always thinking of others". A musical tribute called Peace, Love and Understanding was held at Colchester Arts Centre on 28 December 2015, where former Milkshake Club DJs and friends of Alexander played. All 400 tickets sold out, with Alexander's parents and sister among those who attended. The concert Peaceful Noise was held at London's Shepherd's Bush Empire on 15 November 2016 in honour of Alexander, with sets from Frank Turner, Maximo Park and Gaz Coombes. It marked the official launch of the Nick Alexander Memorial Trust to provide musical equipment to small charities and vulnerable groups across the country. In December 2022, the village of Weeley paid tribute to Alexander by dedicating their Christmas tree to him. Carols were sung round the tree, led by the 1st Weeley cubs and scouts, on 4 December, and the tree lights were switched on by Alexander's nephews Finn and Jude. Eight years to the day of the terror attack, Nick's sister Zoe Alexander received a Points of Light award from Prime Minister Rishi Sunak in recognition of her work to support people through music in memory of Nick Alexander. On 22 November 2025, ten venues across Colchester including Colchester Arts Centre, Three Wise Monkeys, Coda and The Minories hosted "A Peaceful Noise", with dozens of artists including headline act Nova Twins, Turner and local artists performing free of charge to raise funds in memory of Alexander.