My Best Gay Friends (Vietnamese: Bá» ba ÃÂé thõa, roughly translated as The Slutty Trio) is a Vietnamese web series which premiered on YouTube in April 2012. It was developed by openly gay film student Huỳnh Nguyá» n ÃÂÃÂng Khoa, who directed, wrote, produced, and starred in the series. It centers around the lives of three young gay housemates who share an apartment in Ho Chi Minh City. Considered to be the first gay sitcom in Vietnam, it garnered a following, receiving approximately two million views per episode despite being made on a small budget.
The series revolves around the lives of three twenty-something men who share an apartment. Khoa, a college student, was forced to live away from his family so that he can learn to become independent. By chance, he found and rented a room in the apartment where Rje was living, and was soon joined by NháºÂt. Rje operates a stall selling bún bò (rice vermicelli) at a market, while NháºÂt has a mysterious past.
The humor in the series arise from the daily lives of the perpetually broke young people who live away from their families, in situations at school, at work, in relationships, but involving gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender characters. Khoa is always unsuccessful in love, but he is always looked after by his good friends. Rje and NháºÂt vie for the affections of BB Trần, one of Khoa's classmates, while Rje is being pursued at work by a delivery boy. A subplot of the series involves NháºÂt coming to terms with his past.
According to director Huỳnh Nguyá» n ÃÂÃÂng Khoa, he developed the series after hearing his friend and eventual co-star Trần Nguyá» n Kim Hân recount his "weird and amusing" experience after coming out. He wanted to portray gay people in a more realistic way, unlike the negative images he often see in Vietnamese films and comedies. He said, âÂÂItâÂÂs not right. IâÂÂm gay and I see my life as very normal. ThatâÂÂs why I want to bring true images of homosexuals to everyone to change their perspective on us.â He plans to make 15 episodes in total.
Most of the cast and crew are friends of director ÃÂÃÂng Khoa; most of them belonging to the LGBT community in Vietnam, while the rest are straight allies.
My Best Gay Friends was filmed using a Canon EOS 600D DSLR camera and a tripod. Each episode lasts about 20 minutes and takes about 2 to 3 days to film and edit. Each costs about 1 million VND (50 USD) to create, mostly borne by ÃÂÃÂng Khoa and friends. The crew typically film on location, such as at school, on a bus, or at a market, so they are sometimes ejected from their filming locations.
Episode 9 of the planned 15-episode series deals with the issue of same-sex marriage. When a lesbian wedding at a restaurant was cancelled, due to being "against Vietnamese tradition and customs", Cindy Thai Tai (the first openly transgender person in Vietnam) intervened, and the wedding was held at a different venue, to the delight of the couple's friends and family present.
When it debuted, the series created a "fever" online, attracting many viewers and was widely shared on Facebook. The initial response from the LGBT community was largely positive, and many asked to take part in the series. Many episodes have more than a million views, and the newest episode already received more than half a million views. Filmed using a DSLR camera, it has impressed audiences with its high-quality images.
The series has received support from many online fans; a typical YouTube comment read "I feel a lot of sympathy, and admiration, towards the friendship and love they show for each other. I think they live a more beautiful life than ordinary people." However, other comments expressed discomfort with depictions of same-sex marriage and concerns about the viability of same-sex relationships.
The film debuted during a time when Vietnamese society is rapidly changing its view towards LGBT issues, while the Vietnamese government is considering legalizing same-sex marriage, but it's unclear how much My Best Gay Friends had helped. "I thought it would only interest Vietnam's gay community - but we're hearing that parents, grandparents, whole families watch and love the shows and long for new episodes," said the director. As a result of the series, the main actors have become popular teen idols. Trần Nguyá» n Kim Hân, who plays Rje Kaj, actually works at the bun bo stand featured in the series. The stand has become somewhat of an attraction as fans often ask for Hân or take pictures or ask for autographs when he is there. It also has increased business there. It is actually owned by Hân's mother, who has expressed her support for the show and her son's sexual orientation. The series was described as "exposing a world of homosexuals that is fun, funny, and healthy." However, because their sexual orientation became public as a result of the series, the actors sometimes face opposition. Ngô Xuân NháºÂt, who plays one of the three roommates, was condemned by his neighbors and relatives, but supported by his mother, after his sexuality became known.
Despite its online popularity, the director has no plans to broadcast the series on television due to its "rather sensitive" subject matter.
After a 7-year hiatus, the second season of the series was officially announced at the talk show event "Tá»± tin bản sắc chÃÂnh mình" (Confident in your own identity) on the occasion of the 10th anniversary of the series' broadcast held at Léman Luxury Apartments, Ho Chi Minh City on September 16, 2023. This return is a thank you to the audience, and at the same time, a desire to convey a message to society to have a more positive view of the LGBTQ+ community.