"If I Hated You" is a song co-written and performed by American pop singer Fletcher; issued as the second single from her third extended play The S(ex) Tapes. The song was produced by Malay, who also served as co-writer.
The official music video for "If I Hated You" was directed by Shannon Beveridge (Fletcher's ex-girlfriend). Fletcher and Beveridge filmed the music video while quarantining together during the COVID-19 pandemic. In an interview with the magazine Clash, Fletcher said, " {the music video for} 'If I Hated You' is filmed with six different security cameras in a room showing you what missing someone and thinking about them drunk at night feels like."