"I Don't Have the Heart" is a song written by Allan Rich and and recorded by American R&B recording artist James Ingram. It is Ingram's only number-one single as a solo artist on the US Billboard Hot 100, and his second number-one single overall, since the Patti Austin-featured "Baby, Come to Me", which topped the Hot 100 in 1983. Ingram received a Grammy Award nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance at the 33rd Grammy Awards in 1991 for the song.
Released as the fourth single from Ingram's 1989 album It's Real, "I Don't Have the Heart" reached the top of the Billboard Hot 100 chart on October 20, 1990. The ballad remained at No. 1 for one week, and became his final Top 40 hit. Singer Stacy Lattisaw recorded the song as well, and her version was released on Motown Records at the same time as Ingram's, although it was not as commercially successful.
"I Don't Have The Heart" was the first song that the duo of Allan Rich and Jud Friedman created together. Introduced by head of Peermusic Kathy Spanberger, Rich had already written the first verse and chorus of the song. Inspired by what he heard Friedman invited Rich over to his apartment in L.A. to finish the lyrics. Together they wrote the second verse and the bridge.
Speaking about the strength of Rich's lyrics, Friedman told Songwriting Magazine, âÂÂAllan says heâÂÂs not a poetic lyricist, and heâÂÂs not a flowery lyricist. He is very conversational, but in a good way, and that has its own poetry. ItâÂÂs the poetry of reality and the poetry of life and interactions. And the thing about I DonâÂÂt Have The Heart, among many brilliant things about AllanâÂÂs idea for the song, is itâÂÂs an example of taking a phrase thatâÂÂs very well known, âÂÂI donâÂÂt have the heart,â and flipping it. âÂÂI donâÂÂt have the heart to hurt you but I donâÂÂt have the heart to love you.â He used it in two different ways, and that was poetic. WeâÂÂve all been there, sometimes wearing one of the shoes and sometimes wearing the other.âÂÂ