Atika bint Zayd al-Adawiyya () was a 7th-century Islamic scholar and poet. She was a disciple (á¹£aḥÃÂbiyyah) of the Islamic prophet Muhammad. She was also one of the wives of Umar, the second Caliph. Famously, all five of her husbands became shaheed (martyrs).
Atika bint Zayd was born , the daughter of Umm Kurz Safiya bint al-Hadrami and Zayd ibn Amr, a member of the Adi clan of the Quraysh in Mecca. Sa'id ibn Zayd was her brother. Their father was murdered in 605.
Atika was probably still a child when Muhammad's prophethood began in 610. Sa'id was among the early converts to Islam, and Atika became a Muslim too.
Atika married five times in her lifetime.
Her first husband was her cousin, Zayd ibn al-Khattab, who was at least twenty years older than her. He was also a Muslim, and it was presumably in his company that Atika joined the general immigration to Medina in 622.
This marriage apparently ended in divorce, for Atika had already remarried by the time of Zayd's death at the Battle of Yamama in December 632.
Her second marriage was to Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr. It was said that Abdullah deferred to Atika's judgment and spent so much time with her that he was too busy to fight in the Islamic army.
Abu Bakr punished his son by ordering him to divorce her. According to Al-Baladhuri, the reason Abu Bakr ordered the divorce was because Atika was barren. Abdullah did as he was told but was grief-stricken. He wrote poetry for her:
In the end Abdullah was allowed to take Atika back before her waiting period was completed.
When Muhammad died in 632, Atika composed an elegy for him.
Abdullah settled a large amount of property on Atika on the condition that she would not remarry after his death. He died in Medina in January 633 from an old battle wound incurred at the Siege of Ta'if. Atika composed an elegy for him.
She refused several suitors in the following months.
Umar, the future second Caliph and Atika's first cousin, told her that she had been wrong to renounce her right to remarry, "denying yourself what God has permitted".
After Umar became Caliph, when Aisha learned that Atika had broken her vow of celibacy, she sent her a message:
Return our property to us!" When Ali also recited this poem to them, Umar told Atika to return the land. He settled an equivalent sum of money on her, which she distributed in alms to expiate the breaking of her vow to Abd Allah.
From her marriage to Umar, Atika gave birth to a son named Iyad.
Atika asked Umar's permission to attend public prayers at the mosque. Umar preferred his wives to remain at home and expressed his displeasure with silence. Atika told him that she was not going to stop asking permission, and that she would go to the mosque unless he specifically forbade her. He remained silent, presumably because he could not forbid something that Muhammad had permitted, and so Atika continued to attend.
Atika was present at the mosque when Umar was assassinated there in November 644. She composed elegies for him.
After Umar's death, Atika married Zubayr ibn al-Awwam. She made it a condition of their marriage contract that he would not beat her, that he would continue to permit her to visit the mosque at will, and that he would not withhold "any of her rights".
Zubayr was killed at the Battle of the Camel in December 656. Atika also composed an elegy for him.
It was at this point that people began to say: "Let a man who wants to be a shahid marry Atika bint Zayd!"
Afterwards, the fourth caliph of Islam Ali himself proposed to her, but she told him, "I would not want you to die, O cousin of the Prophet." Despite that, Ali ended up dying a shaheed anyway, which changed her as well as people's views.
Atika's fifth and final husband was Ali's own son, Husayn, who was over twenty years younger than she was. He was also reckoned a shahid because he was killed at the Battle of Karbala in October 680, though Atika apparently predeceased him.
Atika died in 672 during the reign of Umayyad caliph Mu'awiya I.